I'm afraid I don't think so, kula_wende. As long as you let other people's comments affect you so severely, the only safe place for your mod will be your head because when you put your mod on a website, people are bound to visit it and not all of them will be those which you like.
As long as you don't know how to treat people whom you don't like, especially slanderous ones, your bitter experiences will not end.