If Alhexx lets me, I will answer FeuFeu's question, since it's a fair one.
Really short answer: I don't care anymore. I don't care what other people think, nor do I care what the moderation/administration thinks, so I speak my mind if I feel like it and do what I want.
That's the one thing I have learned; it doesn't matter if you try to be a nice guy. In fact that makes it probably worse. Thus I don't bother anymore. The dark side is very liberating experience.
There are few things that are very sensitive for me, I'm easy to anger and difficult to appease... so, should someone fuck with me, I don't even bother to act like it wouldn't matter.
I would have commented odo324's post back then, but I had no idea of his background at the time.