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Completely Unrelated / Re: Leaving Qhimm.com
« on: 2006-10-28 16:12:40 »
Hi I'm one of the quiet ones who read a lot and post a little. Just wanted to say a couple things.
1). I don't know you well or anything but good-bye emerald. It's never really pleasant to lose a real member. Especially due to little things that shouldn't happen or things that aren't intentional (I.E. some of the "using grammar that isn't even near Engrish.") Not everyone is completely fluent in English. Though there are some who just felt like taking grammar out back and shooting it. But on the internet these days it's rare to see any places with a fair number of members that don't have at least a couple people like that. I hope you end up reconsidering and sticking around regardless.
2). I'm sorry if my horrible lack of punctuation, improper structure, and (on occasion) bad grammar bother anybody but i admit I have been, and more than likely will be again, part of that problem. I don't think i fall under the other issues addressed but if i do sorry.
3). It's too bad when people don't get along, especially when they can't handle it themselves privately and find a resolution to the current dilemma. I know i heard plenty of times growing up the classic, "If ya can't say nothing nice don't say nothing at all!" Granted i don't know the whole situation and I'm not asking to but i think some people may need to step back and think about some of the flames, insults, fights, etc that they are getting involved in and consider the other persons point of view make sure you fully grasp what they are saying and if that doesn't help how about simply resisting the urge to start or provoke drama. Allow the newbies a little newbishness and if you want to say something about things try being nice and showing some courtesy it might help if not and they bother u that bad ignore them.
Thats pretty much it. I know at least a couple people are going to disagree or feel I've overstepped myself or something (which is their right,) but I'm feeling opinionated today so i thought I'd share on the off chance it might do some good. I'll return to being quiet again now.
1). I don't know you well or anything but good-bye emerald. It's never really pleasant to lose a real member. Especially due to little things that shouldn't happen or things that aren't intentional (I.E. some of the "using grammar that isn't even near Engrish.") Not everyone is completely fluent in English. Though there are some who just felt like taking grammar out back and shooting it. But on the internet these days it's rare to see any places with a fair number of members that don't have at least a couple people like that. I hope you end up reconsidering and sticking around regardless.
2). I'm sorry if my horrible lack of punctuation, improper structure, and (on occasion) bad grammar bother anybody but i admit I have been, and more than likely will be again, part of that problem. I don't think i fall under the other issues addressed but if i do sorry.
3). It's too bad when people don't get along, especially when they can't handle it themselves privately and find a resolution to the current dilemma. I know i heard plenty of times growing up the classic, "If ya can't say nothing nice don't say nothing at all!" Granted i don't know the whole situation and I'm not asking to but i think some people may need to step back and think about some of the flames, insults, fights, etc that they are getting involved in and consider the other persons point of view make sure you fully grasp what they are saying and if that doesn't help how about simply resisting the urge to start or provoke drama. Allow the newbies a little newbishness and if you want to say something about things try being nice and showing some courtesy it might help if not and they bother u that bad ignore them.
Thats pretty much it. I know at least a couple people are going to disagree or feel I've overstepped myself or something (which is their right,) but I'm feeling opinionated today so i thought I'd share on the off chance it might do some good. I'll return to being quiet again now.