Welcome to the forum, and out of interest, how old are your kids?
I considered having kids, but the time wasn't right.
But, as for helping with the forum, are you able to make models or textures already, or are you more involved in writing?
There's surprisingly few number of actual writers here and another one would be appreciated to help take the load off others.
But, your username sounds familiar to someone I used to know on a different forum, would you object if I asked for the meaning behind it?
As for mine, It was the name of a close friend of mine that passed away. (there's no reason for it to become a point of discussion.)
If I didn't name it after him, then I'd have used something along the lines of Ultima Thule, which more or less means 'end of the world' as it extends past the known boundries, not the actual end of the world.
Hope to see you become a productive member here.