Ok, I just wanted to say that the statement "The EU is a dictatorship" is wrong. And that's not an opinion, it's just a fact.
The rest was just my opinion. And the law study thing was just an example. I didn't want to say that I think that the people are too stupid at all. It was about the "free, open vote and secret ballot on law proposals" for everything that I think that most people don't want to sit down for hours after work to learn about the new proposals for the week. Just reading and understanding them would take much time.
The governments of some european countries decided it's a good thing to start a common market and they made contracts. They were elected by their people. And my guess is that every change the EU made is in a contract, too, that the participating parties signed. So "leaving" means getting out of a ton of contracts and obligations (e.g. pension rights) that were signed. That means many negotiations in a magnitude not seen before. I don't know how you can solve it another way?
It's not like: "Oh, in 1957 I just wanted a common market and then I just blinked and all these contracts were signed although I didn't want to and everything is complicated now". It's just like it is nowadays, big problems are pretty complex and there won't be easy solutions.
And the laws the EU makes are mostly decided by the parliament that every EU citizen can vote for directly. So the people that decide are from your own country and elected. It's just federalism. And if then politicians blame the EU for anything then most likey their own party voted for it on a EU level (e.g. Article 13 that most of the european conservative parties voted for. So in 2 years the national parties will say: We have no choice, the EU says we must du this while themselves voting for it 2 years ago).
And sorry if some sayings may sound strange, English is not my native language.